Put the phones away

Make a night of it.

The programmes matter. The ritual around them is what turns an ordinary evening into a family memory.

A multigenerational family laughing together at television

Shared moments · 10 min

The joy of not knowing what happens next

Live television gives every person in the room the same surprise at the same time.

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The easy plan

Four rules for a better night in

No elaborate setup required. A little anticipation and one good choice will do most of the work.

Small rituals, properly kept.

Family traditions become memorable through repetition rather than perfection.

Keep one evening clear

Choose the same night each week so anticipation can do some of the work.

Rotate who chooses

One person picks; everyone else gives the choice a fair twenty minutes.

Decide before sitting down

A shortlist prevents the evening disappearing into thumbnails and trailers.

Talk in the breaks

The conversation around a programme is often what the family remembers.

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